DIY mitzvah gear

April 5, 2005 | Filed Under Blog, Classic Posts | 21 Comments

So, because of my last post, I’ve gotten a query or two from people who won’t be in J’lem for the workshop but are interested in making girl-shaped* tallitot katanot (the garment on which tzitzit are tied.) Since the name of the game is more people having more opportunities to take on more mitzvot, I’m posting the instructions here. Feel free to share this info with others, though in the spirit of my Creative Commons License, I ask that you do so by linking to me and citing me as the author of this post.

Making a Tallit Katan Shaped For Female Bodies

The tallitot katanot one finds in stores are shaped for men’s bodies, they can be bulky, awkward, or ill-fitting for a female-shaped person to wear, especially under women’s clothes. Making your own can solve that problem, as well as addressing any concerns one might have (okay, I personally don’t have these concerns, but some people do) about women wearing beged ish, ie men’s clothing.

What you need:

  • A garment. I prefer close-fitting tank tops (found in lingerie or regular wear depts), but anything comfortable under regular clothes will do. It’s best if it’s already got stitching up both sides that can be easily undone to create corners. There’s some debate about whether synthetics require tzitzit (though given the popularity of the mesh TK, evidently not much debate these days) so if you want to be machmir, go for something that is comprised of 51% or more cotton. Shatnez issues really come into play if there’s wool or linen involved, but that’s easily avoided by checking the label or just getting something that’s 100% cotton.

    In terms of dimensions, some commentators** hold that there is no real minimum for a TK, and that any dimensions are OK. The Mishnah Brurah*** says that the TK must be 3/4 of an amah (15ish inches) wide, and others hold that it needs to be an amah (about 19 inches) wide. Depending on how you hold (I’m not going to posken for you), and how you’re built you might wind up with a garment that’s not so close-fitting, in which case snaps or hooks (see below) would be extra helpful.

  • A tzitzit pack. You can get not-yet-tied tzitzit in pretty much any Judaica store. Thickness, aesthetics etc.and techelet vs. not are all up to you.
  • Needle and thread.
  • A pair of scissors, the smaller the blades the better.
  • Fabric to reinforce your corners. Whether or not your fabric and thread are the same color as your garment is up to you.

    Okay.

    1) Take the garment, and using the scissors, cut the thread/stitching on one side of the garment from the bottom, so that you’re undoing what’s holding the two pieces of fabric together. Go slowly so that you don’t accidentally cut the garment itself. Cut the stitching ’till your side is more than halfway open (the halakha demands that the “majority” of the garment be open in order to be defined as a corner, so 51% open is the minimum.) I reccomend keeping some space closed at the top, so that it will fit better. Do the same thing on the other side. Now you have a garment with four corners.

    2) Put in a little bit of stitching on the sides, where you’re done opening the garment, to make sure the thing doesn’t keep opening of its own accord. A couple of good stitches should be enough to keep it together.

    3) Take the fabric, cut little squares an inch or two squared, and stitch them onto the corners of the garment (like how they have on a tallit gadol, aka regular tallis). Best to fold down the edges of the fabric inward, so the frayed bit is tucked in.
    This will reinforce the corners and keeep the tzitzit happier. If necessary, though, this step can be optional.

    4) Then, using your scissors, cut a small hole in the corner, in the middle of the fabric square–5cm in from the bottom and 5 cm in from the side. Make sure it’s big enough to get four tzitzit strings through, but ideally not a lot bigger than that. Then, finish the hole by stitching around it (using the thread to pull the hole tight and stay put.) Looking at the holes on the corner of a regular tallis or a store-bought tallit katan might give you an idea of what you’re shooting for. I don’t know any fancy sewing terms, so I can’t give you one to describe this. It’s not rocket science–do this to make sure the hole is not going to get any bigger or torn through, and that the fabric is sewn to the garment.

    4b) Technically speaking, you could sew on a hook-and-eye or snaps to sides of the garment so that it closes in a “non-permanent” way and thus fits closer to your body. I personally have never found the need for this, but it’s an option.

    Now, you should have a kosher garment onto which you can attach tzitzit! Cool.

    5) Then, tie the tzitzit. here are some good instructions, from The Jewish Catalog, and here are some more instructions, with the illustration from The Jewish Catalog. If you’re tying with tekhelet (a special blue thread), you can go here to see all the different fun and freaky shitot that different poskim have used, plus instructions on how to tie thusly.

    And that’s about it! Before you put on your new beged, say the bracha “al mitzvat tzitizit” and, of course, “shehechyanu” for your new garment, and get your fringe on down the street.

    Awww, yeah.

    *For info on women taking on positive time-bound commandments, check out my post here about it. Or, if you’d prefer, some sources for your entertainment: Mishnah Kiddushin 1:7; Tosefta Kiddushin 1:10; BT Eruvin 96a; Rosh Hashonah 33a; the stam in Sifrei Bamidbar 115; Tosafot Brachot 14a, Tosafot Kiddushin 31a (re: Baba Kama 87a); Rambam Hil. Tzitzti 3:9; Ran Perush L’Rif Rosh Hashonah 955; Rema Hil. Tzitzit OH 17:2; Rema OH 589:6; Iggerot Moshe OH 4:49; Tzitz Eliezer 9:2; as well as Rashi, Rebbeinu Tam, Rashba and others.

    **Aruch ha-Shulchan 16:5; Hisorerus Teshuvah 3:38. See Igros Moshe Y.D. 3:52-2 for an elaboration.

    ***Hilchot Tzitzit 8:17; 16:4.

  • the week’s report

    April 1, 2005 | Filed Under Blog | 2 Comments

    Still here, even if I’m a little spotty on posting this week. Between the post-Purim trying to get back to routine bit (lesson learned: scotch hangovers are not your friend) and the fact that it’s suddenly SUMMER out, there hasn’t been a lot of sitting around navelgazing at my computer lately.

    Things have been happening, though, I guess. Like I have a gig, this coming Monday, which should be fun. Anybody in the J’lem area, I’ll be talking about my book and other assorted Jewy feministy things at the Fuchsberg Center (Agron at HaMelekh George) at 8pm. And it looks like I’ll be leading a workshop on how to make a girly-shaped tallit katan next weekend (after Shabbos, natch), which should also be a good time. Kind of gratifying–like all this weird stuff I’ve been doing and figuring out on my own all this time might have a chance of actually being useful to somebody else. Crafty girl meets halacha dork, that’s me.

    Also did something totally out of character this week–that is to say, I booked tickets for a somewhat spontaneous (ie to leave in 2 weeks) vacation. I am not the world’s most impulsive person in some ways–like I’ll go back to the shoe store 3 times before deciding for sure to buy–and all the more so with plane tickets. Am I SURE I want to do this? Am I sure I’m sure? Have I really thought through all the angles of (blah blah). Introspection can be kind of a disease sometimes. But I was ultimately persuaded to loosen up a little (”What’s the worst that happens? It’s not that fun and you’ve wasted a little bit of time and money. Big deal. And it could be fantastic.”) and I think it’ll be great. Vacation! Travel! So that’s the week before Pesach (we get 2 weeks off for spring break, whoo)–6 days to travel and then 2 days to clean FRANTICALLY and buy food and like a new pot since none of the ones in my kitchen here can be kashered, and then get my yiziyat Mitzrayim (exodus) on. This year in Jerusalem! (Or Haifa, or outside Tel Aviv. Haven’t decided where I’ll be for seder yet.)

    Also realized this week that my return to reality America is June 9, not June 15 as I had for some reason thought. Which is a bit of a bummer–I won’t have an extra week to pack up here (finals end June 8, not sure how this is all going to be pulled off) and I’ll be missing the opportunity to spend Shavuot in Jerusalem. Wah! I really wanna! Gonna see if I can still move the date, but I have a sneaking suspicion all the flights are totally booked up already. Feh.

    (Hey, is this blog still going to be interesting to people once I’m no longer in Jerusalem? Even if I keep the name?)

    Anyway. That, ladies and germs, is the news from here. Time to go to the grocery store and start thinking about getting my Shabbos on.

    Merry Shabbos to all, and to all a good day.

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